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Thursday, November 24, 2005


Weird Thanksgiving Blessings


There is this little old lady in the building who drives all of the other tenants & the Manager nuts.
She's going senile and has episodes where she forgets everything. She changed all her locks, and won't give the Manager a key. Then she forgets and locks herself out and goes around banging on everyone's doors trying to find someone in the building who will call a locksmith.
This can happen any time of the day or night... 3 am in the morning one time.
Sometimes she is totally lucid. Other times, senile. She has no family to help her. Its really sad.
But Needless to say, she is the least favorite person of any of the tenants in the building.
Personally, I avoid her at all costs.

I was busily making my pumpkin cheesecake this morning when she knocked on my door.

I didn't want to opened it. I knew it was her before I asked who it was.
She said through the door "I have a present for you."
Oh, no. Not a present.

I opened it, and she gave me a Meals on Wheels Thanksgiving meal. She said she told them about me.
She knew about my car getting broken into from the note I left on all the tenants door.
And she had heard about my Radiation Treatments for Breast Cancer.

I tried to refuse and asked her to give it to someone else. I told her I have plans for Thanksgiving dinner.
She said No, it was a gift just for me.

As she said this, I was holding the door half-way shut.
The word around the building is that if you let her into your apartment, she will never leave and will be there for hours.
She said "Can I come in and put this down?"
I took the plate of food from her.
I had the door jammed with my foot. She was trying to press it opened. My foot was holding it.
Now I held all the food, so there was no reason for her to come in.

I kept trying to get her to give this food to someone else.
She kept saying no, it was for me.
All the grocery shopping I do at Whole Foods - I was feeling guilty about taking the free food.

I was never clear about how she got the food. Was she giving me her Meals on Wheels food because she was going out for dinner?
Or did she get them to give her an extra plate ?

She said she needed to return the tray that the food was on to them.
I told her I would bring it right back up to her, once I was out of my pajamas.
She said "Knock on my door. If you leave it in front of the door, someone might steal it."

Wow, the whole thing was really touching. Even if I don't need the food.

I put the food into tupperware containers. Then I washed the tray. Changed into jeans.
And brought the tray up to her apartment on the third floor.
I attached a Thank you note on a card with a cute kitty cat pic.

I knocked. Her door has like 5 serious dead-bolt locks on it. And one lock with a key pad with numbers you have to punch.
No wonder the manager is mad - he doesn't have a key to any of those.

It took her a while to come to the door and undo all the locks. And when she opened the door, the smell was really bad.
I know she has a cat and a bunch of birds.
There was bird seed all over her carpeting.

I said a few Thank You's again. And I wanted to leave because of the smell.
She said "Have a wonderful Thanksgiving. And I pray you live a long and healthy life."

Oh, wow.

Gee, here I am spending a chunk of my paycheck at Whole Foods, going out to a nice Thanksgiving Meal later on .... but here someone else is concerned about me having a good Thanksgiving.

I will have to think of a nice thing to do in return for her.
And a way to spread this goodness to another person.....

Makes me stop to think about the Real Meaning of Thanksgiving.....


Comments:
hi donna. i really enjkoy reading your blog. i am an actress in new york, going through similar situations, i type on blogomonster if youd like to see... magickat
 
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